Karakter/Character

Salam everybody, muslim and non-muslim.

First of all, I'm gonna start my entry with a quote from Tuk Guru Nik Aziz: "If we praise someone, it means that, we making ourselves more humbler than him, lower than him. The same thing if we praise Allah by saying Alhamdulillah, we are actually making ourselves humbler than Him, lower than Him. So there's no good praising someone else, except praising Allah S.W.T". Terima kasih to saudari Khafizah (I think she is studying in UK) who shared a link in facebook. I took this quote at the end of the video.

Nevertheless, I said that I am going to post a video, so here it is, sorry for the bad quality because currently Youtube is still processing this video, so it may took a while for the quality to get better.

This was a video about what we did during our today's outing. I intended to snap some pics of me, but it turned out that I had to take some picture of them. Which either this or that, I'm still glad. So, there went Husaini (the grey shirt guy), Suffian (the kiddy voice guy) and Syukri (the bowl hair guy). So, guys, please tell me how could possible I cannot laugh even a day if I live with them (Suffian and Husaini)? Yeah, they are the most awesome friends I ever met since I was studying in Intec. They have their own world, which not exactly as you guys might think about them.

The Vouge Italia World.





Anyway, enough about them. You know, sometime when you are being nice to people, and then people tends to step their feet on your head back, you are feeling like 'you pay for a pain' all these while. I didn't happened to me. Yet. But, it happened to my friend, which eventually it caused the 'war' between we (men) and women. Men and women, male and female, boys and girls. We are different, although we are human. That's why God created us with different characteristics, either physical or mental. We are different, but we are compliment to each other.

Actually my friend is quite nice with the girls, until, everything that girls wanted, he just fulfilled it with all his will. Even though it sometimes troubled him. Eventhough sometimes it caused him flattering around, missering around thinking how he's gonna settle things up. But when things like taking advantage on him, I think, we think, he should stand for his right.

But he's not gonna make it. He just cannot. So, for the girls out there, there are many reasons that you are claiming that you are better than boys. I admit this. But, for once, DO NOT TRY to make a single reason saying that you cannot do that thing just because you are a girl. Like buying products at a store in front of your house. You can buy it yourself, do not ask others who are staying miles away, even if it is a boy. At night or not, you can go with your friends. Pfft.

I mean not all of them, but few of them. So, take it easy.

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Tadi aku dapat mesej chat daripada facebook, pukul 1:10 pagi daripada IPDA punya profile. Dia cakap "Assolatukhoirum minal Facebook". Seriously, aku tergelak. Sikit. Then aku reply la sikit guna mesej direct kat inbox dia cakap aku kat different time zone. The important part is best la kat Malaysia always ada orang nak remind.

Kat sini takda. Semua nak independence. Sakit doh. Sebab tuh sembahyang tak menentu. Dalam dunia ni sebenarnya banyak perkara yang kita boleh buat, tapi kita sendiri tak mampu buat. Ada kekuatan tapi masih tidak kuat. Badan kuat, main badminton kuat, study kuat, tapi bila nak bangun subuh, semua otot tak mampu bergerak, macam cramp lepas 1000m punya larian pulak. Study kuat, tapi bila nampak alarm kejut, tamampu nak paham maksud alarm tuh suruh bangun subuh sedangkan baca buku Fisiology sikit punya tebal cik kak, mampu pulak paham.

Ini menyebabkan aku wonder. Di mana sebenarnya situasi aku sekarang? Semakin tua semakin baguskah aku? Semakin tua, semakin kuatkah aku? Semakin tua semakin aku sama macam ayah aku kah yang pergi ke masjid tiap kali subuh? Pelik. Yand muda-mudi ni, kalau diajak tengok wayang tengok bola makan sana sini, tapi bila diajak pergi sembahyang jemaah, ya Allah, berat benor otot gluteus maximusnye. Inilah hal hal yang aku rasa agak awkward dan seolah-olah ada mak cik joyah manelah yang telah pengaruh aku ni? Sedih, hiba, kuciwa tau tak.

Cuba lihat diri balik:
1) setiap hari kita boleh bukak facebook for about 1 hour, stalk orang itu "ooiiih, skandal ngan dia ni kaa? hangat ni", stalk orang ini "Ya Allah, dah nak menikah dah ka dia ni? Gatai dah no kecik-kecik". Tapi nak bukak al-Quran, ya Allah berat tuh waduh macam baju tuh dia pakai tuh baju besi zaman dinasti Ming, tak larat kedarah nak pi amek air sembahyang pastu baca al-Quran.

2) boleh hafal proses, formula kimia dan sebagainya, tapi satu ayat al-Quran satu hari, fulamak, macam kena hafal satu buku cerita tebal 2000 muka surat. Eh, Harry Potter boleh pulak ye habes 3 hari? Tak ke pelik dunia ni?

3) Beli baju Zara, baju Topmen, tapi kalau bab bab nak sedekah sehinggit kat masjid, rasa macam duit sehinggit tuh berbaloi tahap boleh beli satu jaket Zara harga 400 hinggit. Cubalah kita amalkan "Jom Shopping di Masjid setiap Jumaat" or "Jumaat MegaSale" di mana setiap pembelian hanyalah dengan satu ringgit. Insya-Allah, murah rezeki gitu. tak rugi pon. bukan makan pasir pun hujung bulan sebab derma kan?

4) sepak bola, smash badminton, kalau pempuan tengok, terasa gerun dan "wow, hensem la mamat tuh smash aww". tidak ditujukan kepada aku. *yo yo oo*. boleh pulak kan? tapi kalau bab berjalan ke bilik air nak amek air sembahyang, Allah hu Akbar, seribu satu alasan, air sejuk sangat la, alasan kerap "takpe, pegi dulu" bila diajak jemaah. tak jantan langsung. hat jenis ni, para betina betina sekalian, ni la lelaki fail, tak maskulin langsung.

5) "Kita melayu kena maju sedia, prepare, pandai cakap dengan segala ilmu sains dan matematik sebab itu teras ilmu ketamadunan sesebuah bangsa". Fulamak, berapi cakap pasai ketamadunan, tapi, tamadun sangat ke bila maksud ayat al-Quran pun taktau. dalam tuh, tau dak ada berjuta tamadun ada. sains pun ada tunggu hampa nak paham intipati dia.

6) tanyalah segala ayat cursing mencarut seribu satu bahasa, dia ni memang awesome boleh jawab semua 'kewl' gitu. tapi, try tanya maksud nama-nama Allah dalam nahsyid Asma' Ul Husna, nah, gagap bertalu biru dok "urm", "erk", "isk" la gamaknya.

dah mengantuk dah sekarang ni. nak pegi tido. tolong jangan terasa dengan ayat ayat di atas. please terasa dengan mesej-mesej di atas. sebab ini semua kritikan terhadap diri aku sendiri. Wallah hu alam. Salam.

p/s: There will be a tab beside the 'what the heck' tab which named 'Ayatul'. Click there if you want to know more.